We get many of those here from girls and boys now teens or even now parents who had one parent abusing and one in denial. In many cases because it is so hard, the mother turns away. That must have been hard as it was the last thing you wanted to find. From what you have told us you acted when you had reasonable doubt. One here last year.Like yours very sad.ĭo not blame yourself. I have seen some cases where the abuse was long term and kept so well hidden it only came up when the employer (US government) did a security check on a work computer which lead to police, which lead to the truth. They all angst over not doing something sooner, but I think that the trust you need when you are husband and wife with a family, the trust they will be there for you, never cheat or betray you and you are there for them, partially blinds us. In almost all cases the mother is taken complete by surprise. Not many but enough that I can say certain things. I hate to say it but we get very similar stories every few months. Posts: 1 Joined: Sat 7:54 pm Local time: Fri 7:54 pm Blog: View Blog (0)Ī couple of things. I don't bring my children around him but worrying about bills and is so hard. I still feel attachment to the father but know I should detest him for what he has done. I just don't understand how this could have been going on right under my nose. I am just very sad and this is so new to me, and of course any mothers worst fear.
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My son was showing warning signs of stress when living with the father "pulling his hair" afraid of strangers, although we had a quiet and stress free environment. Ever since this happened, my daughter won't let me give her hugs or kisses.pushes me away.I just fear for our relationship. My daughter also told me he molested my 2 year old son and that she wishes he could tell the detectives instead. I hear you guys saying it takes years to get past this, but it seems so scary. I never use language like that around her and among the other things she said it is just very shocking and traumatizing. I asked if he put his thing in her mouth, she said no, put her hands to her throat and said "choke on my cock". My daughter told me in graphic detail many things. I loved this man for 5 years and it hurts so much. The father has agreed to take his name off the house and is going to presumably get prosecuted for the pornography. I already deal with anxiety and depression. I started weekly concealing again and my daughter starts counceling in 2 weeks. The police still are working on the investigation. She admitted to my mother what happened and also to me, but when she went to talk to the children detectives or anyone else she did not disclose the information. I quit my job and was a stay at home mom the past year and a half prior, because I had a weird feeling.my friends would always say he seemed shady and like a pedofile but I thought they were being judgmental. The police found no evidence of the video, but found a massive amount of child pornography on the computer. I gave my phone to the police but the video had already been deleted, as I had messaged the father letting him know what I found and how angry I was. I immediately called 911 and rushed to my home to grab her and my 2 year old son. He choked her until her eyes almost popped out and she said "I'm sorry I didn't mean to" and other things amidst her being choked. It didn't show much but you could tell he inserted his penis in her mouth and showed his hands moving her up and down with pain on her face. I found a video from when my daughter was 3 years old of her father in the bathroom with her. Well I got to my family house that night and was looking through photos on google play and reminiscing. I never leave them alone with their father often, unless going to the grocery store or if my daughter didn't want to come with me to my family house on occasion "she never wanted to come". He was always very nice and helpful.worked, payed the bills, worked with me and my mental health. He seemed like the nicest guy, I guess you would say a "wolf in sheeps clothing". We haven't been "together" for the past year, but always lived together. I found out last month that my 5 year old daughter was molested by her father.
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